With the possibility of a funeral looming over your family, you may be wondering just how much you should take on yourself. On the one hand, handling everything on your own might seem overwhelming. On the other hand, you probably want to remain at least somewhat involved in the planning process. Balance is key. If you or someone you know is looking for funeral homes in or near Indianapolis, IN, you should know that the right option may be just around the corner. O’Riley - Branson Funeral Service & Crematory understands that striking the right balance is essential. You should absolutely have meaningful input when it comes to making funeral arrangements. You should absolutely be at the table and share your thoughts. But generally speaking, you probably shouldn’t go it alone. 

Handling funeral arrangements on your own may be somewhat tempting. Perhaps you’re trying to save money. Maybe you just want to stay busy. These are certainly understandable feelings. But trying to plan a funeral by yourself may prove seriously overwhelming, and that’s not good for anyone. 

The first problem you may encounter is coordination. While you can certainly plan a very minimalist funeral, most funerals include certain features. And someone has to make sure each of those components is in order. For example, someone generally leads the service itself. That has to be arranged. Certain music may be in order, as well. That also has to be arranged. Invitations must go out. Refreshments may be made available. Eulogies should be coordinated. There is a lot to think about, potentially more so in the event of a graveside service or any service in which the body of the deceased is present (and must therefore be transported). And in addition to the amount of work that must be done, it generally must happen fairly quickly—generally just days after your loved one has passed. 

Is it possible to handle all of these requirements? Sure, especially if you have some help from friends and family. Is it a good idea? That’s another question entirely. Remember that you may be going through a very difficult time, especially if your loss was unexpected. Grief is virtually inevitable. And you are entitled to the time you need to begin the healing process. The last thing many people want to do is interfere with that healing process. 

Additionally, it is worth remembering that funeral homes are trained to do these kind of things and make sure everything goes off without a hitch. That’s our job. And we take that job very seriously. While you may be very capable when it comes to planning events, that doesn’t mean you should feel the full weight of doing so during a time of need. It can be difficult, time-consuming, and more than you wish to take on. If that’s indeed the case, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. 

If you are interested in funeral homes in the Indianapolis, IN, area, consider reaching out to O’Riley - Branson Funeral Service & Crematory. We are here to help. While we never shut anyone out of the planning process, we do take things off of your shoulders. That’s important.