Edward Robert Aide

December 30, 1944 ~ January 6, 2025
Edward (Ed) Robert Aide, 80 passed from this world on January 6, 2025, at his home with his wife Lorraine by his side. Born on December 30, 1944, in Poughkeepsie, New York. Edward proved himself not only as a successful entrepreneur but also as a cherished member of his community.
As the owner and president of Modern Maid Cleaning Service for over three decades. Edward showed an unwavering dedication to his craft. His entrepreneurial spirit was a testament to his hard work and commitment, which left an impression on all who had worked alongside him. Edward's success was built on the foundation of strong relationships and genuine connections, a true reflection of his character.
Outside of his professional life, Edward was a man of many interests. He relished the art of cooking and found joy in dining in and out, particularly reveling in the rich flavors of his Middle Eastern heritage. This passion for food was not simply about sustenance, it was a celebration of culture, family, and togetherness, whether hosting gatherings or enjoying meals with loved ones.
Ed was an avid golfer. He also embraced the camaraderie of the sport as a proud member of The Legends Golf Club as well as member of his Weekly “LOG” League. Golf offered Ed a sanctuary where he could share laughter, stories, and the thrill of friendly competition with fellow enthusiasts.
He leaves behind a devoted family who will carry his legacy with pride. Edward is survived by his beloved wife Lorraine Aide, his cherished children Trisha, (Dave), grandchildren Morgan and Zachary Tennis, Edward, (Annie) Aide, grandchildren, James Lehman, Carter, and Madison Aide. His brother Tom Aide, his sister Michele Stewart (Joe) and a host of loving nieces, nephews, and cousins who have all been touched by his kindness and love. Edward’s bond with his family was profound, built on love, respect, and shared experiences that will forever remain etched in their hearts.
Ed joins his late parents Edward J. Aide and Najla Nejame Aide, and his sister Nadine (Rick) Petty, in eternal peace.
His life was marked by devotion to family, hard work, and an unwavering spirit, a legacy that will inspire those who knew him to live with the same passion and love. In celebrating Edward's remarkable journey, we honor a life well-lived, one that created a tapestry of memories cherished and celebrated by many.
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Services entrusted to O'Riley – Branson Funeral Service and Crematory, 6107 S. East Street, Indianapolis, Indiana 462274.
A Celebration of Ed’s life will be held on Saturday, February 15, 2025, from 1:00 PM – 4:00 PM at Southern Dunes Golf Course Clubhouse 8220 South Tibbs Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46217. (317) 865-1800
In lieu of flowers memorials in Ed's name may be made to American Heart Association. https://www.heart.org or to St Jude Children's Hospital, https://www.stjude.org/donate
This is my wish for you: Comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, love to complete your life.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
1803-1882
What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we once deeply loved becomes a part of us.
Helen Keller
1880-1968
There was always an Eddie and Tommy as far back as I can remember. The Aide boys.
We were told recently that when we visited a certain family they would put anything good away so we did not do any damage.
Brother Eddie was a wonderful dad, brother ,uncle and friend to all that knew him. He packed a lot of fun and life into his 80 years ( just 80 on 12/30/ 24) on this earth. Along with a deep love of family and friends, Golf, cooking and oldies were his passions. He loved his hometown of Norwalk ( South Norwalk ) Ct and his other hometown of Orlando, Fl.
His other favorite place on the entire earth was Arthur Avenue in the Bronx where he and I and our friends ate our way through many Italian spots, always beginning at Randazzo’s Fish Market for raw clams and oysters.
He will be terribly missed by all who knew him.
Family, friends and classmates were always in his thoughts. He lives on in our memories and hearts.
Eddie , You will be TERRIBLY MISSED ❤️
I cannot remember a time in my life, since the day I was born, that I didn’t have my brother Ed by my side. He was the definition of what a big brother should be. He was my best friend, my mentor. He had so many words of wisdom to share with me always. He always encouraged me to reach for the stars. He loved his family with all of his heart, with all of his being. He adored all of his friends, and the endless times we were together were always filled with such love, laughter, food and stories and wonderful memories. His legacy will live on with his beautiful children and grandchildren. Anytime I was with him and we would drive in his car, we would listen to oldies but goodies, and he knew every word to every song and every artist and what year it came out. His memory for everything in his life, and in our lives was remarkable. I was in awe of the stories he told and the specifics he remembered. Anytime he came to visit, he and I would spend a day in his favorite little town of Dunedin. I will miss everything about my brother, especially our wonderful conversations on a daily basis. Ed, you will be truly missed now and forever. We will carry on the tradition you held strong for our family. I promise you that. I love and miss you, forever and always ❤️ Your loving sister Meesh
Always enjoyed visiting with Ed. He was a great guy. He’ll be greatly missed.
I will miss my Brother in Law , Ed I did not get to see him often due to living in North Carolina , but I knew he was there . I’m grateful to have known him, and he was a great cook, and loved golf . Rest easy and know we will all meet again . Love you , and fair well.
Ed was always a very generous hostess when we needed a place to stay. When I came back from Florida for grandchildren’s events. When My son’s Jason and Joe were in High school . Many a nights were spent at Ed and Lorraine’s house. Always opening their doors to welcome the kids. Ed will be missed by so many. I pray for peace for the entire family.
I have known Ed Aide for over 60 years. He put great value on friendships. I will miss the annual luncheons he organized where old friends reunited, and new friends were made. It was such a joyful event, and he was always so delighted to have us all together. Rest in peace, my friend, and my condolences to Tommy and Michelle and all of Eddie’s family.
Gerri Bummer has purchased Purple Majesty for Edward Aide
So many rounds of golf. Even traveled together for more golf. I should have known something was different when his calls slowed down. My thoughts go to Ed’s family. He worked years in his business. Wish we could talk, one more long putt and one more boxing night at the Fair Grounds. You’ll never be forgotten.
Ed was president of our homeowners board for several years and did a wonderful job in leading this neighborhood. He had an unwavering devotion to ensuring things were done the right way, as evidenced by the fact that he was still handling board matters up until a few days before his death. All in our neighborhood are grateful for his strong leadership in making ours a wonderful neighborhood. Thanks, Ed!
My sincere condolences to Lorraine and his family!
As president of our HOA, Ed made us feel welcomed when we moved into the community last year. He did an outstanding job in that position and will be exceedingly difficult to replace. We fondly recall his and Lorraine’s reading of The Night Before Christmas at the community Christmas party last month. It was priceless, to say the least. We lift up Lorraine and the whole family in our hearts and prayers. Ed will be sorely missed. May he rest in peace.
Though indirectly related by marriage, Ed became more than family for 55 years; he was the brother I never had and he will be missed. He and Lorraine always and graciously welcomed me and my family into their home; many terrific meals and memories shared. Our common love for old rock ‘n roll music and golf strengthened our bond. Ed was always grateful for the many blessings he received from the Lord and though I will miss him, I am comforted knowing he has eternal life with Jesus and has been reunited with his parents and Nadine. Thank you my friend and “brother” for being part of my life. Our parting words on his 80th birthday were “ I love you brother”.
As a member of the Legends Golf Club, I met Eddie about 6 years ago. As the new guy, it was obvious that many of the members had known each other for a long time. However, Eddie welcomed me into the group first, and he helped me to become 'part of the Club'. It did take me a while to find out his name wasn’t 80. He was a good man, gentleman, full of fun especially on the golf course and one that I will miss for my lifetime. I only wish that I enjoyed food the way he did. I can picture him now explaining how a certain dish should be made or how he liked something cooked. I will continue to laugh, but it won’t be like the Eddie laugh.
To Lorraine and family, Lisa and I will be thinking of you and sending prayers.
I am so sad to hear of Ed’s passing. I’ve known him (and Lorraine) since my Kobacker Shoe days, back in the early 80s. It was so fun reconnecting when we realized we were all in Indianapolis. I remember Ed visiting my husband when he was in rehab. I remember some lovely meals and visits with Ed and Lorraine. He will be be missed. A light in this world has dimmed without him. I hope all the amazing memories bring comfort to the family.
Ed was my friend as well as my golfing buddy. We shared special times together with golf and 'Oldies Music'. Many trips for golf, many lunches and dinners afterward. Many cries from Eddie like ' Hey Johnny! let’s get Burgers at the turn' Our joke was when we needed a putt to drop for the win, we would always stop and say 'Goodbye my friends' and then laugh if went in.
Now, there are just memories and we have to go on. I will always have a place in my heart for Eddie. Goodbye my friend!
Ed turned out to be a dear friend, neighbor and fellow hoa board member. Our relationship came to be as brothers, driving 45 minutes to eat the best pizza or going to eat ice cream in 20 degree weather.
We came about as golf buddies playing for $2 aside. I think we broke even, even though I do believe I am $2 up on our last 9. No problem my friend, hopefully I’ll collect later.
Ed was a great story teller, especially of his early days in New York and Connecticut.
I miss you my friend
Tom condolences to you and your family on Ed’s passing.
Dear Lorraine and family, It is with my deepest sympathy that I write to you and your family at the loss of our dear classmate Eddie. It was Eddie who organized in 2011 our first reunion, the class of 1958, our grammar school class, and who for the next
13 years sought out the whereabouts of as many of our classmates as he could. He kept a detailed report where everyone was living as well as keeping in touch by phone or e-mail. In recent years Ed would order the steaks, the chicken, the racks of lamb
and the shrimp from Costco, fly in from Indiana and prepare a feast for us as he worked the grill for the day. Thanks to him our reunions were warm and wonderful, delicious and fun. I know I speak for many of our classmates when I say, words could never express all the sympathy felt for you in your great loss. May it help to know that many caring thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Rest in peace, dear classmate. And thanks for all the memories.
Claire Bartoli St. Joseph’s School Class of 58 Norwalk, CT
I was lucky enough to have Ed as a friend, golf buddy and even golf partner in our LOG league! Ed and I met on a golf course 30+ years ago. He was the guy that you could spend an hour with and he made you feel like you had known each other forever. Ed and I talked almost every week day morning after he got everything ready for the day at the office. It started in mid-2000 after my mother passed. The two of us, along with 3 other friends had all lost our mothers but still had our fathers. The first thing we talked about was 'How is your DAD'? Then we talked about all the members of our family. It became almost a ritual. That lasted until January 15, 2006 when Ed called me late. He was choked up because he had to tell me that he has lost his father that day. I had no words! Two days later on the 17th, I had to call Ed and share with him that I had just lost my father!
Ed loved many things in life. Ed truly loved LIFE. I will always remember his love for food; his love for golf; but most of all, I will remember his love of family. He was so proud of each and every one of you! My heart goes out to all of you! I am sorry I will not have him around, but even more so for the fact you have lost a husband, father, brother and grandfather!! We are all blessed for having had Ed in our life!! I will miss my friend!