Connie A. Stephens
October 31, 1946 ~ September 24, 2020
Connie A. Stephens, 73, lifelong resident of Indianapolis, passed away at her home on Thursday, September 24, 2020 surrounded by her family after a courageous battle with ovarian cancer. Connie was born in Indianapolis on October 31, 1946 to the late Robert F. and Mary D. (Dugan) Rogers.
Connie graduated from Sacred Heart High School in the class of 1964. Upon graduating, Connie began her career as an administrator at the Federal Bureau of Investigation in Indianapolis where she was employed for six years. During her employment there, she was named “Miss FBI” and rode in the Indy 500 parade. Following her tenure there, Connie was employed as an investigator for the Internal Revenue Service in Indianapolis for over 31 years. A dedicated worker, Connie enjoyed her part time jobs through retirement. She worked at Von Maur in Greenwood for six years in the Jewelry and Men’s departments. Most recently, Connie was employed as a part time administrator and greeter at O’Riley Funeral Home in Indianapolis.
A devout Catholic, Connie was a member of St. Jude Catholic Church since 1975. In her spare time when she was not working, she enjoyed playing euchre and dancing to bands with friends. Connie relished in football season, always cheering on her Purdue Boilermakers (Boiler Up!) and the Indianapolis Colts. Above all, she was a fervent mother and grammy to her four grandchildren. Connie had a smile that could light up an entire room. She will be remembered as a classy lady who was always well dressed and polite. Connie was known for her positive attitude and kind spirit; attributes that exhibited themselves even in her final days. Connie will be greatly missed by all of those who were lucky to know and love her.
Survivors include her children, Charlie (Mitzi) Stephens and Michelle (John) Kruger; her precious grandchildren, Julianne and Nora Stephens, Vaughn and Victor Kruger; her sisters, Kathy English and Francie (Mike) Downie; a host of loving friends, coworkers, and extended family members.
Visitation will be held on Thursday, October 1, 2020 from 3:00 to 8:00 P.M. in the O’Riley Funeral Home, 6107 South East Street, Indianapolis. The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, October 2, 2020 at 10:00 A.M. in St. Jude Catholic Church, 5353 McFarland Rd, Indianapolis. Family and friends are welcome to gather at Connie’s house for a Celebration of Life Luncheon following mass from 11:00 A.M. to 3:00 P.M. Memorial contributions can be made to the Ovarian Cancer Research Alliance; envelopes will be provided at the funeral home. Please visit www.ORileyFuneralHome.com to share a favorite memory of Connie with her family.
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Connie is a very kind and gentle person. She is always very warm an helpful to others. Gor to know her at Von Maur.
Connie was a beautiful soul inside and out. We met more than 30 years ago and life kept drawing us together through the years. Most recently, we worked together at O’Riley Funeral Home. RIP We will miss herߒ—
Connie and I were grade school and high school friends from day one. We did so much together especially during our high school years. Double dates and just hanging out at each other’s house. We had a special friendship that I will cherish all my life. May she Rest In Peace.
I gained such a wonderful friend in the few short years I knew her. I was blessed and very honored to have Connie in my life. Heaven has definitely acquired an angel. Rest In Peace Connie-baby. You will forever remain in my heart.
Rosie, I am so sorry for the lose of your dear friend..HUGS
Connie will be the most beautifully dressed and accessorized angel in heaven! I will miss her wonderful attitude and smile. With love and prayers to her family and friends. ❤️ Lori Menke
Rest In Peace Connie! I will miss your beautiful smile and our talks we had at Von Maur. God surely needed another angel, He picked on of the best. Forever in my heart.
Loved your smile and happiness! You will be missed by so many Connie. Dear friend rest in peace ߙ
All throughout my childhood and into my adult years, I cannot remember a time where Aunt Connie wasn’t happy. I knew that if I saw her, a smile would always follow. Even in the rough time towards the end, she was still in good spirits and most importantly, sarcastic. She wouldn’t let anything get her down. She will be dearly missed by all of us. We love you Aunt Connie!
I knew Connie from Indy 500 parties and IFD events. You always knew when she was in the room! There was noise and laughter. I also know her daughter from different social experiences. It was only when Connie was at a Bunco night at Michelle’s house, I heard Michelle say “hey Mom!” . I looked at Connie and said “wait! You’re Michelle’s Mom???” Dang we had a big laugh!! Connie will be missed by many and spoke of often. She was a good egg.
Connie became my sister-in-law back in the 70’s. She was so friendly and I felt more comfortable around all the new friends. She always came to every football game and parties afterwards. I sat with her at many games through all kinds of weather. She would continue to come to any event including the family and the coaches and their families. She always entertained me. She wanted to spend her last days at home. I don’t think I have ever seen anyone so at peace. She faced a huge, beautiful window that looked out to God’s creations. There were the trees and flowers, a pond, birds, and even “The Chicken Dance” performed by family and friends. She loved it all. She was at peace. She told me the last visit I had with her, “I just had to be home”. I loved and enjoyed her so, and will miss her. Rest In Peace and prayers for her family during this difficult time. Love Aunt Donna a huge window loo
Connie, the sweetest girl in the world! You were my BFF, my partner in crime, my commiserator and always come to my parties girl. What in the world will I do without you. You were so proud of Michelle and Charlie and your beautiful grandchildren. Rest in peace my beautiful friend — until we meet again. I love you❤
So very sorry to hear about Connie. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Connie was a beautiful lady and so much fun to be with. We will sure miss her. May she Rest In Peace.
Connie was a truly beautiful person inside and out. I enjoyed playing euchre with Connie for many years and treasure all of the Christmas ornaments exchanged over 39 plus years with our IRS girls. What I’ll truly miss is seeing Connie’s smiling face at Von Maur. We spent many a day catching up on family and life. She will be truly missed. Many prayers to Charlie, Michelle and their families!ߙϰߙ
Thinking of Connie always makes me smile. Remembering all our good times at work, celebrating birthdays, playing euchre in our work card group, our ornament exchanges and of course, being diehard Purdue fans together. She lived life to the fullest and enjoyed every minute. Our hearts are breaking for Charlie, Michelle and their families. May our sweet Connie Rest In Peace. ❤️
Outside beauty, elegance and a ready smile, inside kindness, humor and generosity. Since freshman year at SHCHS we were in the same high school club. Those friendships continue today. Connie shared her lovely home with our high school class for many holiday seasons. Rest in peace, Connie. Our condolences to Michelle, Charlie and family. Larry & Patty Schmalz
Connie was always happy. Every time I saw her she was excited to everyone. She was a such a one-of-a-kind amazing person who always brightened up the room. She will be missed dearly.
Connie was always cheerful and loving to everyone. We will miss her and her Christmas smiles Steve and Judy Rieman
With Love Sam
Connie was the prettiest and funniest mom in all of the neighborhood when we were growing up. She was one of the kindergarten carpooling moms. I love the stories of how she and my mom would go to aerobics then to Harry C’s for dinner and drinks afterward! My husband and I both had the pleasure of growing up around Connie. She was a total sweetheart and she will be dearly missed! We love you Michelle and Charlie! Love, Ralph and Shelby Gonzalez
Connie was my precious friend from grade school to High School. Our friendship remained togetherness for so many years, even up to her last few days. She was by far a fun loving, charming, kind, entertaining friend & since I live in San Diego, we stayed in touch as often as possible. She was an incredible Mom to Michelle & Charlie & they were at Connie’s bedside through the weeks & her last days. My Love & Respect for Michelle’s continual overseeing Connie’s hospital experience & Thank God, Connie was eventually brought to her favorite place…Home! My sadness for her loss will live on & my precious memories of our friendship will also live on. I like to think the angels are anxious to be with her as they heard how charming & fun Connie can be! Rest in Peace, precious Connie!
So very sorry to hear of Connie’s passing. Our condolences to the family. Connie was such a sweet caring friend. She was always happy and always loved her laugh. Sorry that we had lost touch these last few years. ߙϰߏ۰ߙϰߏ۰ߙϰߏ» Phil and Diamond Vidito
I remember Connie as being very kind and always happy. I used to go over to their house and hang out with Charlie when we lived in Arlington Woods in the 1980’s. I was very sad to hear about her passing. She will be missed. Many blessings to Charlie and Michelle during this difficult time. Matt Evans
With loving memories of “Connie Stephens”, our thoughts and prayers are with you. With heartfelt condolences,
I’m so sorry to learn of Connie’s passing. I will always remember her hearty laugh and beautiful smile when she and her family would gather at the Turpin house for get-togethers, summer picnics, or breakfasts in a shelter in Brown County. She was so kind-hearted and loving, and I always loved being in her presence as a kid. She was someone you just felt good being around. My deepest condolences to her family. She will be deeply missed. Patti Turpin Peck
With much sympathy and love,
“Connie Stephens” will remain in our hearts forever.
Of course I have lots of great recent memories of Connie, but this old photo of a family Christmas in Kansas City makes me smile. Connie really rocked the wiglet and spit curls. So cute. So fun. Miss you. Glad we never lost you in the divorce. Teresa McGranahan
With deepest sympathy,
I remember Purdue football games standing around the fire with her drink and saying “Oh Mitzi” or whoever at the time. I remember Ike and Jonsies and right left and center during the Christmas parties, just to name a few. Connie was a great mother, grandmother, and Catholic. I’m glad we got to say goodbye to Connie. She told me, I remember all our good times when we left. I do too Connie, I do too. Now go rest with our Savior in Heaven. Love you Connie, Natalie, Brian and Sophia
With loving memories of “Connie Stephens”,
I never met Connie but I do know this: she raised fine children and I’m proud to call them friends. RIP and I hope the family finds peace in the coming weeks and months. God Bless you all.
Our sympathies to Connie’s family. She was a beautiful lady who loved God, family & life! We will miss her! Penny & Rex
We didn’t know Connie, but I can attest to the fact that she raised a wonderful son, Charlie. Charlie worked with us for a while and we always knew he was a great guy. It takes a great mom to raise such a sweet guy.
I remember meeting Connie at Ike & Jonesy’s many years ago when social distancing wasn’t a thing. She was so beautiful.
Thinking of you and wishing we could be there with you. With love from the California Kru
Connie was my neighbor growing up in the 70’s and 80’s in Franklin Township. She would never miss an FC football game. My sister Cathy and I played with Charlie and Michelle almost every day. My parents, Connie, Roger, Sharmin, Rita, Ken and a few more of the gang had a card party every other month for many years. I always admire her dedication to running everyday. So many wonderful memories.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Peace and love .
Always in out thoughts & prayers. Our warmest condolences.
Connie and I shared some wonderful times around Indianapolis and at Indiana Beach. Your mother was such a wonderful, kind and caring person. She will be remembered and missed by many.
Lit a candle in memory of Connie A. Stephens
Lit a candle in memory of Connie A. Stephens
Connie and I met many years ago when our kids were little We were in a baby sitting ‘co-op’ started by Cyndi Craddick. We would trade baby sitting for each other. We shared may Franklin Central games and interests during the high school years. After that were some card parties and just get-togethers. Later I enjoyed seeing her in Von Maur and between customers we would talk up a storm and take up where we left off. People would remark how they thought we were sisters, both being tall, similar features and of course, bleached blond hair (Connie would laugh at this.) Connie was one of my favorite people. So sharp, fun and outgoing, and who was a nice gal. Everybody liked her. She will be missed by a lot of people. Our sincere condolences for her family. Sincerely, John and Janet Koeller
I only have lovely memories of Connie, someone I looked up to when I was a young woman. She was amazing, kind and beautiful…always. I met her through my Mom – they worked together at the IRS. I’m sorry for your loss, she was a truly special woman.