David L. Loudenback
May 9, 1963 ~ January 9, 2021
David L. Loudenback, 57, passed away peacefully at home January 9, 2021. Dave was born May 9, 1963, in Beech Grove, to the late Lynn Loudenback and Marcella (Shaw) Loudenback, who survives. He married Cathy Sallee on July 15, 1989, and she survives also.
Dave graduated from Perry Meridian High School and earned a business degree from Indiana University in 1985. For many years, Dave was a salesman and area distributor for Kirby Vacuums. Most recently, he was in sales for Fikes Fresh Brands for the past 16 years. Dave’s likeable and friendly personality was a great asset to his successful career in sales. He was a faithful and loyal member of St. Jude Catholic Church. He enjoyed the community of the church, regularly attending the 7:30 a.m. Mass and always looked forward to working the yearly parish summer festival. Dave also enjoyed sports, especially golf, basketball, and the Indianapolis 500. He always looked forward to family vacations that centered around water – Key West and the Outer Banks were amongst his favorites. Above all, Dave was a strong family man who was caring, extremely generous, and loyal. His memory will be cherished by his loved ones and many friends.
Survivors include his wife of 31 years, Cathy; sons, John and Steven (Allison); mother, Marcella; brother, Dan (Becky); sisters, Diana (Frank) Smith and Deana (Troy) Haney; granddaughter, Eliza and one grandson on the way.
Visitation will be Friday, January 15, 2021, 4 to 8 p.m., in the O’Riley Funeral Home, 6107 S. East Street. The Mass of Christian Burial will begin at 11 a.m., Saturday, January 16, 2021, at St. Jude Catholic Church. Entombment will follow in Calvary Cemetery. The funeral will be livestreamed on the O’Riley Facebook page by visiting https://www.facebook.com/orileyfuneralhome/. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Catholic Church or to the American Cancer Society. Visit www.ORileyFuneralHome.com to share a favorite memory or to sign the online guest registry.
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God had no better earth ambassador.
My condolences. David was a good friend and a great man. He was always there for me.
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David brought so many good times to my life. Our condolences. I will miss his unconditional friendship.
So many good memories. Dave’s unwillingness to judge people and circumstances always rubbed off on those around him. He was a positive influence to those who spent any time with him. I am honored to have called him my friend and am truly blessed he was in my life.
Dave was a special man, a special brother-in-law. We had some great times together, deep sea fishing with John and Steven in Florida, playing golf, going to the Indie 500, and best of all, hanging out with Cathy and the boys (men now!). So many good memories. Dave so loved his family! And that extended to his church, his friends, his community. We’re so grateful that we got to spend some time with him at Elizabeth’s wedding last year. We’ll miss him. Our prayers and condolences are with my sister and nephews, and with Dan, and all those who loved Dave.
Dave was a wonderful brother-in-law, we will miss him. Love, Mike and Deb
Dave was a remarkable friend. Congenial but tough, insightful and caring, humble yet dignified and all wrapped in subtlety. His wounds and words could be trusted, never left a scar and caused no pain but moved you to be a better person.
I was only lucky enough to meet Dave once. In that short period, I could tell that he was an amazing person. So caring and genuine. My deepest condolences to Cathy and the family. Olivia Berry
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
It’s saddens me to hear about David’s passing. Dave was a wonderful person, kind, and funny. I was lucky to know Dave and remember the wonderful night we all had on their wedding the fun and the laughter. Dave and Cathy welcomed me with great kindness. Whenever we visited Indianapolis we were always welcomed to their home with generosity. Even my son remembers those fun times we had there. Dave had a great sense of humor and could really make you laugh. My condolences to Cathy Steven and John and I pray that you find the help you need to get through this horrible time. Love and hugs to you and your family.
I’m very sorry to hear this. I had the singular privilege of running an Indy Mini with Dave in 1982. An excellent partner for a longday, quiet and always right there, until he was saying something achingly funny. Laughing hurt as much as running that day. My prayers to his family
I only met Dave a couple times when I waterproofed his basement so they could sell their house, and I’m very close friends with his nephew Jason L, but what I do know is he was a amazing person had a genuine heart and never judged a book by its cover he will be truly missed and it was a honor to get to know him
David was a cousin of my husband’s. We always felt a lot closer than cousins with him & Cathy. There were a lot of get togethers with his Mom & Dad when the kids were younger. Then David & Cathy started having their Memorial Day pitch-ins. David & Cathy worked so hard to make sure everyone had a good time. He will be missed by many people but his kindness & love for every one will always be remembered. Fly with the Angels David, you deserve to be one of them. Love you & Cathy. Judy & Don
Dave was one of the nicest and most humble guys I’ve ever met. He always had a way of making every situation about “you” and nothing about him. I’ll surely miss you my friend! May our paths cross in Heaven!
David and I Ushered together for a few Years at St Jude he always had a Smile on His Face when we walked in the Door.He always asked about our Adult Kids and our Grandkids who live in Japan by Name he never really knew my kids well but he always knew their Names. He was a Great Friend and we had a lot of laughs on those Sunday Mornings I’ll miss you My Good Friend Fly High with the Angels.
The world has lost a true ambassador of kindness, inspiration, and love for his fellow man. Those who knew Dave were and will always be blessed.
With deepest sympathy.
Dave was a friend to the world. His positivity and faith in God through all his trials was inspiring. We will be together again, brother.
Cathy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, We are here for you when you need us. Sending love and hugs.
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
Prayers and thoughts! Dave was an honorable man and a loyal friend! Heaven has gained a Saint!
I knew Dave for about 20 years, I suppose. He was one of the kindest and most humble people that I ever knew. He always had pleasant words for me, anytime that we spoke. I will miss working with him at our parish festival and I will miss his friendship. RIP my friend.
Dave and I grew up together. Don’t know when we first met, but he was a companion through the Y-Guys football and basketball leagues probably started around 8 or 9 years old. And was a friend ever sense. Dave never met anyone he didn’t have a smile for. As we grew older we saw each other 2 or 3 times a year for the poker matches. He loved playing cards. And the friendship seemed as strong as it ever was, even though we saw each other less frequently. Dave, if your listening, and I know you are. Find my Dad and have a game of cards with him. Rest In Peace my friend. You were one of a kind. Marty
Goodbye to our dear friend. Hello to our guardian angel. Ron, Donna and Pamela Price
We are so sorry to hear of Dave’s passing. He always remwmbered our first names which i found very impressive. So sorry fo your loss. Jim and Janice Schwartz
You are now a star in the heavens… David L Loudenback Born Oct 4, 1963