Marjorie F. O'Brien-DesRoches

On this day, February 15, 2019, our Lord took Marjorie’s hand and welcomed her into his kindom. Marjorie Ferne (Stroud) O’Brien-DesRoches was born March 31, 1920 to Charles Riley Stroud and Hildagarde (Roth) Stroud. She was the eldest of 16 siblings, Janet, Bernice, Rosemary, Doug, Jim, Nadine, Kate, Phyliss, Ruthann, Jack, Suzan, Jerry, Nancy, Charlene and a still born baby. On the night she was born, the doctor arrived by horse and buggy to the farm house in Kempton, IL about 17 miles from Clifton, IL. He stayed the night due to the snowy weather. Her birth place was recorded as Clifton, IL. Shortly after her birth Charles moved his family to Indianapolis working for the streetcar company of Indianapolis.

Growing up, she attended St Philip Neri grade school and then St. Mary Academy of Indianapolis in the 30s. Her first professional job at 19 years of age was for the Indianapolis Railroad. She then went to work as a secretary in engineering of Radio Corporation of America, RCA, located in Indianapolis on LaSalle Street. She was united in marriage Harry O’Brien on November 20, 1941, at Saint Philip Neri Catholic Church of Indianapolis. Once the war broke out in December 7, 1941, Harry joined the Army and Marge remained in Indianapolis continuing to work for RCA. The RCA engineering group moved to Cherry Hill, NJ in 1942; Marge followed the group, doing her part in supporting the war effort, as this was the group that designed all the communications, including radar during WWII, supporting all branches of military service.

In November of 1953 she gave birth to her only child, Robert L. O’Brien, in Peru, IN. She and her husband moved to Columbia City, IN where they resided from 1954-1964; while residing in Columbia City, they attending St. Paul of the Cross Catholic Church. A new work opportunity presented itself for her husband and the family moved back to Indianapolis, she and her family would become members of St. Gabriel the Archangel Catholic Church. In 1966 she went back to work at RCA on Rockville Road where video discs were being designed and manufactured. She later transitioned to the RCA HQ on Sherman Drive working as the secretary in the Design Center group. In 1975 she became a widow having been married for 34 years. She continued working for RCA before retiring in 1983, with 27 years of service, at age 63.

She went on to marry Emile DesRoches on July 16, 1983 at St. Michael the Archangel, combining households, they would begin a new journey on the south side of Indianapolis and attend St Mark Catholic Church. Her bonus children, as she would refer to them by marriage, included Susanne, Dianne, Joe, Carol, and Rosie (deceased). She and Emile were married for 19 years until he passed in 2002.

At the urging of her son Robert, she moved to his home in northern Indianapolis in 2010, and became a member of St Monica Church. She got to enjoy so much during her retirement, which she felt forever blessed, travel, gardening, playing cards, Colt’s football, women’s clubs but most of all family and friends. She is survived by three remaining sisters, Suzan, Nancy, and Charlene, her five children, 19 grandchildren, 38 great grandchildren and five great greatgrandchildren. She was cared for in her last moments of life in homecare hospice, by her longtime friend, Sharon Shinneman-Gleave.

Visitation for family and friends will be from 3:00 PM until 7:00 PM on Monday, February 18, 2019 in the Daniel F. O’Riley Funeral Home, 6107 South East Street, Indianapolis, with recitation of the Rosary beginning at 7:00 PM on Monday at the funeral home. Morning prayers will begin at the funeral home on Tuesday, February 19, 2019 at 9:00 AM, from there, the funeral procession will arrive at St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church, 126 West Georgia Street, Indianapolis with Fr. Rick Nagel presiding over the Mass of Christian Burial beginning at 10:00 AM. Marjorie will then be laid to rest at Holy Cross Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to the American Cancer Society; envelopes will be provided at the funeral home. Visit www.OrileyFuneralHome.com where you may express online condolences with Marjorie’s family.

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  1. I have many memories. One I love to think about was when I was a single mom with 3 little girls and she would buy doughnuts at church for us. Always generous always loving.

  2. Got a check in the mail, unexpectedly, from this wonderful lady, just after she learned of my emergency back surgery,in 1995.
    I didn’t even know that she knew about it. The card attached said just to use it for whatever we needed. She was THAT kind of person!. Always caring about her family, whether it was hers, or her brothers & sisters. Truly a Heart of Gold!. God is So proud of you, and now has you back home. Enjoy eternity, Aunt Marge. We’ll see you soon!

  3. My sympathies to the entire family. What a wonderful woman and such a full life, but still a sad loss. Rest In Peace.

  4. Every time Robert and I left the house Marge would say “don’t forget where you left me”. Rest in peace Marge, don’t forget where you left us.

  5. Marge joined our extended family several decades ago. She was never at all shy about coming into the DesRoches/Pfau clan of dozens of nieces, nephews, and all their spouses and kids. We always enjoyed it when she came to family gatherings, even after Emile died. Condolences to her son, Bob, and to our cousins “the bonus children.” Marge is an example of a life well-lived, and well-loved. Maribeth Taylor Ransel

  6. Robert,this is a loving tribute to your mom and her family. I lived her dearly and know she is with her mom and dad..all the brothers and sisters of her incredibly loving wonderful family. Love you Robert

  7. Aunt Marge was just a classy Stroud babe; they were all so beautiful, fun, and loved each other as a close family. I shared a private story with my brothers and sisters that I did not realize that Aunt Marge and Aunt Fern were the same person until I was 26 years old Tough enough to keep 14 aunts and uncles straight with hundreds of cousins, but to go by middle names was just classic! Say hi to my mom Rosemary when you see her, would you please Aunt Marge/Fern? ߒž Love you, Michael

  8. My sincere condolences to your family. May our loving Heavenly Father, who does not want us to die, bring to your mind joyful memories of your loved one. Please be comforted by the fact that at John 5: 28, 29, the Bible says that “there will be a resurrection”. This shows that our loving heavenly Father wants us to live. He has made provision for us through the death of his Son, Jesus Christ. He will resurrect our loved ones who have died and restore them to the Earth which will be turn into a literal Paradise. Please visit jw.org to learn more about the resurrection. Good health to you!

  9. I will miss my fishing buddy! She always was able to get the biggest fish ! Once we left the lines in overnight when we went down to check on the lines I had 12” catfish! But when we finally got her line in she had a 22” blue cat! She will be missed! God bless Marge! Jots of love, Joe

  10. I can still hear her voice, crystal clear. She was quite a lady!. This brought tears to my eyes, as I remember her. Beautiful tribute and looking back to a life well lived. Thanks for sharing this with us all. God Bless


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